I cannot believe how twisted people's minds can be. How is it possible that the same situation and offense be okay with one and not okay in the other? How is it possible that the very same thing that is being done to you now, you were once guilty of and yet you let it slide when it was done to you but not when you were the one doing it? What makes it different? How can you let someone off the hook because supposedly you don't know the whole story and yet when it was pertaining to people who are blood relatives, you chose to believe whatever because it feasts on your ego. Isn't it karma now that the very same thing that you did to your blood relatives is being done to you now by a stranger or by a friend that you thought had your back and yet you don't seem to see the lesson behind it. How can you easily forgive strangers and yet hold on to age old grudges when it comes to blood relatives? Why did you cut the stranger some slack and yet you cant do the same thing to your own flesh and blood? The reason why you want to let it slide is so that the other person would stop from telling people stories but how come that never stopped you? It never stopped you when it was your OWN family's dirty laundry that you were waving in public. Doesn't that come back to you as well? What makes it different now? Supposedly in your mind you didn't do anything to deserve such a treatment from this so called friend but apparently your siblings did or do. Life is telling you something now but it seems that you are still blind and deaf. Doesn't "do not do unto others what you dont want others to do unto you" ring a bell?